No one would want a double dose like that - each on its own is bad enough. Smile, God loves you, Carolyn Sanford, NC 919-718-0700 ----- Original Message ----- From: "Rose Combs" <rosecombs@xxxxx> To: <optacon-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Monday, January 05, 2015 5:56 PM Subject: [optacon-l] Re: Hubby Benny has passed > This is an opportunity that I could have forgone, trust me. > > > -----Original Message----- > From: optacon-l-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > [mailto:optacon-l-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] > On Behalf Of Jyrki Voutilainen > Sent: Monday, January 05, 2015 4:07 AM > To: Optacon User List > Subject: [optacon-l] Re: Hubby Benny has passed > > On Mon, 5 Jan 2015, Carolyn Arnold wrote: > >> It's not easy, but little by little, you can make it. It helped me to >> talk about it, and I had a lot of email friends. Fortunately my job >> ordeal happened 14 years before I lost my husband, so I didn't have >> both stressers at the same time. > > And I was also grateful that my latest IT education and Marjo's (the lady > I've told about) passing did not happen at the same time. The education > had > already finished when it happened, so I got the opportunity to go through > this. > > -- > Jyrki Voutilainen > mailto:jykke.voutilainen@xxxxxxxxx > __________________________________ > to view the list archives, go to: > > www.freelists.org/archives/optacon-l > > To unsubscribe at any time, just send a message to: > > optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "unsubscribe" (without the > quotes) in the message subject. > > Tell your friends about the list. They can subscribe by sending a message > to: > > optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "subscribe" (without the > quotes) in the message subject. > > to view the list archives, go to: > > www.freelists.org/archives/optacon-l > > To unsubscribe at any time, just send a message to: > > optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "unsubscribe" (without the > quotes) in the message subject. > > Tell your friends about the list. They can subscribe by sending a message > to: > > optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "subscribe" (without the > quotes) in the message subject. > > to view the list archives, go to: www.freelists.org/archives/optacon-l To unsubscribe at any time, just send a message to: optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "unsubscribe" (without the quotes) in the message subject. Tell your friends about the list. They can subscribe by sending a message to: optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "subscribe" (without the quotes) in the message subject.