[optacon-l] Re: Hubby Benny has passed
- From: Jyrki Voutilainen <jykke.voutilainen@xxxxxxxxx>
- To: Optacon User List <optacon-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Sun, 4 Jan 2015 16:19:35 +0200
Right, but I can understand even Rose's feelings quite well. I would also like
to have someone to discuss decisions with. If I'd had that, many unwise
decisions would probably had been different.
On Sun, 4 Jan 2015, Carolyn Arnold wrote:
> Rose, it sounds like your life has been struck first by a tidal wave, then
> hit by a tornado. Each of those losses can cause major grief, but in
> combination, that's a knock down. Your pieces to pick up are gone. I prayed
> for the Lord to strengthen you and help you go on.
>
> Smile, God loves you,
>
> Carolyn
> Sanford, NC
> 919-718-0700
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Rose Combs" <rosecombs@xxxxx>
> To: <optacon-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> Sent: Sunday, January 04, 2015 7:43 AM
> Subject: [optacon-l] Re: Hubby Benny has passed
>
>
>> Well I experience my loss last May and for me it seems no one is with me
>> at all. Now facing outsourcing of my job for the past 38 years. I was
>> just starting to take interest in things again when I got that news, now,
>> depression is constant, and yes, I am on meds, probably the only thing
>> that makes me continue working until mid-March when we are dumped into a
>> service, something I am not at all pleased about. I don't think I ever
>> felt as much alone as I did the day I heard the news about the job.
>>
>> Won't get into religion here but, I don't feel that God is with me,
>> against me is more like it. The year 2014 was horrible, 2015 looks about
>> the same except that now I have no one to discuss decisions with.
>> Sorry folks, just having a tough time after a weekend alone.
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: optacon-l-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
>> [mailto:optacon-l-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Marsha Macchi
>> Sent: Saturday, January 03, 2015 4:27 PM
>> To: optacon-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
>> Subject: [optacon-l] Re: Hubby Benny has passed
>>
>> Hi, Marsha here. Though I don't post much to this list, I was very sad to
>> learn of your husband's passing. Having suffered a loss like this almost
>> three years ago, I can well understand what you are going through as I
>> went through this. Know this that God in his infinite mercy will give you
>> peace through this time though it might not seem like it now. May the love
>> of Him who knows all things go with you.
>>
>> Marsha
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: optacon-l-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
>> [mailto:optacon-l-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Donald Bishop
>> Sent: Saturday, January 03, 2015 3:20 PM
>> To: optacon-l list
>> Subject: [optacon-l] Re: Hubby Benny has passed
>>
>> Nancy,
>> I’m terribly sorry to hear about Bennie’s passing. I’m sure this is a
>> very hard time for you, but please know our thoughts and prayers are with
>> you and your family.
>> Nothing can totally replace your loss, butt I pray you’ll have the
>> strength to move on with your life even though it’s hard now.
>>
>> Again, our sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family at this
>> difficult time.
>>
>> Don
>>
>>
>>> On Dec 31, 2014, at 8:17 PM, Nancy Shackelford
>>> <ladym74731@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
>>>
>>> At about 7:15 this evening, Benny's heart finally stopped. He is in a
>>> better place where he doesn't have to be hooked up to all the IV bags,
>>> ventilator, urine catheter and all the monitors. He was so worn out with
>>> trying to breathe, even on the BIPAP, that they put him on the
>>> ventilator. I was hoping he could turn around and pull out of it, but he
>>> just couldn't. I know he's in a better place, but I'm still at the stage
>>> of "It doesn't make any sense!" I thank all of yall for your thoughts,
>>> prayers and support so much, and you can know that I appreciate every one
>>> of you that I know and communicate with. I'll let you know about the
>>> funeral arrangements and anything else.
>>> Thank you,
>>>
>>> Nance
>>>
>>> Nancy Shackelford
>>> Walk On Faith & Trust In Love - Michael Reed
>>>
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