My husband now says that everyone has second guesses, that it is a part of grieving. Smile, God loves you, Carolyn Sanford, NC 919-718-0700 ----- Original Message ----- From: "Jyrki Voutilainen" <jykke.voutilainen@xxxxxxxxx> To: "Optacon User List" <optacon-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Saturday, January 03, 2015 1:25 AM Subject: [optacon-l] Re: Thanks to everybody for their prayers and supportm > On Sat, 3 Jan 2015, Nick Dotson wrote: > >> I still put instruments, braille books, whatever on Margie and >> LaBrentha's >> side of the bed to make it feel smaller. (smile) > > Why not? That's a way to handle this too, and it may be easier than > changing the beds to smaller ones. (smile) > > I've sometimes thought about how it would have been if I'd lived together > with the lady I've told about; would it have been harder or easier? We > just visited iechogher, and I was the one who made the visits much more > often, because I was more able to do this than she was. > > Another thing that I — and probably most of us — do think about is what we > could have done another way than we did. This is unnecessary, of course. > > -- > Jyrki Voutilainen > mailto:jykke.voutilainen@xxxxxxxxx > __________________________________ > to view the list archives, go to: > > www.freelists.org/archives/optacon-l > > To unsubscribe at any time, just send a message to: > > optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "unsubscribe" (without the > quotes) in the message subject. > > Tell your friends about the list. They can subscribe by sending a message > to: > > optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "subscribe" (without the > quotes) in the message subject. > to view the list archives, go to: www.freelists.org/archives/optacon-l To unsubscribe at any time, just send a message to: optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "unsubscribe" (without the quotes) in the message subject. Tell your friends about the list. They can subscribe by sending a message to: optacon-l-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with the word "subscribe" (without the quotes) in the message subject.